Garrick Lee (
Sat, 31 Jul 1999 21:59:54 PHT

aaaaaah...for what it's worth. the folks here are right -- this isn't
related to gundam, and it's not quite the place to look for help.

...but i'll chip in my two cents worth, anyway.

1) long distance relationships rarely (if not never) work.

2) you'll end up hating the people who've told you so (that it doesn't
work). 's ok. i'm used to being hated - i do this lots of times :)

3) having taken her to the prom means nothing. what makes you think it
means anything? heck, many times, marriage vows don't amount to squat in
keeping folks together. people treat relationships like feces-tauri because
many don't know what "love" is. do you really know what love is? (not to
offend or anything, since we're virtual strangers -- but it's a good
question to ask yourself. is it really love or just an emotional attacment?
  puppy love?)

4) eddie's right. (about her clinging on the past and stuff).

5) there are other girls. no such thing as love at first sight or made for
each other. (unless you're a newtype...) move on with your
watching gundam...lots of it. :)


>From: Chris Beilby <>
>Subject: Re: [gundam] personal help
>Date: Sat, 31 Jul 1999 00:28:39 -0700
>Edward Ju wrote:
> >
> > >hey i was wondering if someone could help me. there is a girl i have
> > >crazy about for a while and she has well a boyfriend i mean this guy is
> > >real jerk to her in my opinion ( because he didnt take her to the prom
>but i
> > >did had no problem with either) i really love this girl and im really
> > >sure what i should do relationship wise i mean she keeps calling me
>from her
> > >home in germany and telling me how much she misses me and how much she
> > >and its cutting away at me . she already knows how i feel and i really
> > >know how she honestly feels . please help any advice would be cool .
> >
> > Dude, long distance relationships do not work, period. Unless she is
> > coming back soon, you better move on with your own life. She's probably
> > calling you because she's in a new environment and is desperately trying
> > hang on to the past.
> >
> > I know this is not what you want to hear, but in the long run it will
> > out better for you.
> >
> > Eddie
>Forgive me for saying this, Eddie, but Bullcrap!
>Christopher Beilby
>Gundam_Wiz of Gundam MUSH ( port 9999)
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